Monday, August 16, 2010

My dad is crazy, please help me.?

To shorten things up about my life and my dad. My dad is a chronic narcissist, a mental abuser, controlling, and irrational. He is self rightous. This is why my parents are divorced. My dad put a restraining order on my mom, blaming her to be an unfit parent. Anyways, since i live with my mom primarily i am forced by him to visit him every other weekend, and everytime he makes me feel like i'm insane...telling me the small things i've done wrong that day to use against me, or trying to get in an argument about the Parent Plan. Hence i'm only 15, it's not his duty to push adult information on me or my brother. Anyways, today is an example from one of the many days of torture. I asked if i could go to a friends house to watch a movie with them. He told me no because I stepped on the carpet with my shoes on and didn't ask if he needed help with dinner. I didn't know he needed help and it was an accident that i stepped on the carpet with my shoes on....but yet again he still acted like i'm a corrupted child.





So yet again, i'm imprisoned in my dad's house...dealing with his controlling attitude and it depresses me like mad...I want to leave. I want to go back to my moms house.





How can i live my life normally while visiting with him in the way? How do i get away from him without him calling the police on me? I can't keep letting this happen to me...My dad is crazy, please help me.?
Tell your mother you don't want to see him anymore. You don't have to go anywhere you don't want to, especially when being with him makes you feel upset.My dad is crazy, please help me.?
At your age, you are allowed to have a lot of input on being with parents. Talk to your mom about the problem if you are able to talk to her, if not talk to a teacher at school about what you are going through, they can guide you to resources to help with this problem.
maybe he just wants to spend time with his child... i.e. you.... u see him once every 2 weeks and wan to go to ur friends house instead?
tell your mom tell him how you feel and well hopefor the best

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